TIFU by kissing my deaf Friend
Hi there. (22M)
I'll try to keep it short.
I met a girl through a mutual friend. We've known eachother for roughly a year, but haven't spend time alone yet, always in a group. She's very sweet and pretty.
She's not completly deaf , she can still hear a bit, with the help of hearing aids.
I guess mild deafness, not sure tho?.
Yesterday we met up with our mutual friends, we were having a barbecue. Later on, we ran out of snacks, so the other two went to the grocery store
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We were alone in the yard, chatting etc.
Now I noticed that she kept staring at my lips, so I thought to myself does she want to kiss me?.
Since she didn't stop staring I thought, that it's obvious. This time I'm not going to miss a hint.
I leaned in to give her a kiss, I mean she did kinda kiss me back, but afterwards it was like dead silence. Thank God the other two arrived a few minutes later.
The rest of the evening was super akward between us. Later as she left, I told the other two friends that I had kissed her because she kept staring at my lips.
They started laughing saying Of course she's staring at your lips , she's lipreading.!
Man, I totally forgot that deaf people also use lipreading to communicate, and since she's never actually done that before I didn't take that into consideration
This will definitly be one of the moments that'll make me stay up at night and cringe, plus I probably ruined the friendship.
TL;DR by thinking my friend wanted to kiss me, she probably didn't.
UPDATE: Okay, Guys I sent her a message, asking if she wants to come over.
She said she'll be here in an hour.
I'm nervous lol, I'm trying to convince my roomate to go on a long walk.
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