Husband “accidentally” killed my cat and i dont know how to cope.

My husband 28M and I 31F were moving to a new apartment yesterday. I have two cats prior to us being married (we’re newlyweds of a month) and he said he would ensure they make it safely to our new apartment. He wanted me to go to his family’s house and not worry about moving stuff. He assured me the cats would be in front with him not in the back with our belongings. I told him I can wait, I can take them, I can help anything. He said no relax they will be in front with me everything will be okay. Upon arrival one of my cats was unresponsive his bag smashed open (it’s one of those kind of backpacks with globe) Basically the driver refused to let the cats in saying he has a really bad allergy that would make him sick in the hospital my husband claims he had papers proving it like a doctors note. So they agreed to put the cats in the back of the truck. My husband said he made sure they were by the back window so he could look back and see and that nothing was on top of them or around them. Long story short I believe one of them was freaking out busted out something fell on him i dont know. But he wasn’t breathing and my husband gave him cpr. He started taking quick breaths. We had to spend a good hour finding a vet open on a Friday. (Muslim country) My baby was walking but a little wobbly the vet said maybe an ear injury and he’ll be fine. But this morning. We got news that he started convulsing and moving slowly and maybe had a brain hemorrhage. But they didn’t have the equipment to do a scan and couldn’t move him until he stabilized. He didn’t. He died. We picked up his body and buried him in the back yard. I’m so pissed at my husband I can’t look at him the same I just see him as some idiot who didn’t even think to just take a taxi with the cats or call me to come back. I feel like I can’t trust him with responsibilities especially a living thing which could someday be a baby. I dont know what to do right now or how to feel or where to go from here in my marriage. We’ve fought over it so much these past 24 hours and he just says “you think I killed him on purpose?! I’m working all day to create a home for us. I did my best I was watching out the window i dont know what happened” but what else is there for say? I throw blame he makes excuses. All my life I’ve had dogs and cats and I’ve never ever had one suffer an injury or need the hospital or fight for their life. All have grown old and passed naturally. The one time I entrust my animals to the person who I should be able to trust he biffs it hard. Where do I go from here? (Apologies for errors I’m on my phone) submitted by /u/These-Muffin-7994 to r/cats [link] [comments]

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