AITAH for not skipping a work trip because my husband is recovering from a hairtransplant?
My husband flew overseas for a hair transplant. We have two children under seven. I work full-time in a stressful corporate role. He never plans or researches in advance. I am supposed to go on a work trip for two days to a two-day work planning retreat. It is important exposure. He will be “post-op” for three days by the time I leave. Last night he texted that he needed me to cancel my trip because “he is recovering from surgery”, “put him first” and “I’m going to be beyond mad if you do this to me and do not put me first the one time I am asking” and if I go he won’t take the kids to school. His head may be sore and bald but should not impede a pick up and drop off. My trip has been planned for about six months. His main gripe is that he will be seen so close to surgery. He did not need to choose this date and up until yesterday, this was the plan. He told me my “trip is stupid”. I put everyone first but I don’t think I need to stay home and miss something so important for this and I also think it is selfish to be saying this to me. I am always impacted by his last-minute changes and impulses. I am supportive of doing something that makes him feel better about himself but why should I miss this last minute? Am I being selfish or is he being selfish?
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